Desi tales explore a number of themes that are deeply rooted in desi culture and values. Love, physical attraction, bravery, honor, and family are some of the recurring themes found in these stories. These stories often serve as a reflection of the society from which they originate, encompassing the hopes, dreams and struggles of the Desi community. Every youth knows about adult stories and sexual feelings.
In today's era, every man and woman knows the procedure for celebrating Suhagrat. Every man and woman waits for the wedding night. But even if it is said that it happens to every teenager, it would not be wrong. Because psychologists say that after the age of 13, girls and after 14 years of age, boys start thinking about all this imaginatively. Why not even think, after all this night is called ‘First Night’ or in Urdu Shabe Urushi. On this night, two strangers take the form of husband and wife and get lost in each other's love bond for a lifetime forever. Like a snake, two bodies become one soul. In this one night there is no curtain, no third person, no wall. The lights are off, breathing is heavy, there is a foul smell in the air and there is a storm in the heartbeats. This is the specialty of Shabe Urushi. Everyone wants to live their entire life in this night. So that remembering this night throughout your life brings satisfaction and a slow smile on your face. Whenever this is mentioned, no matter the age, a rosy glow blooms on the face.
This night is a turning point in life not only at the emotional level but also at the sexological level. After this night the girl ceases to be a girl and becomes a woman. As soon as she becomes a woman, her world completely changes. Many types of changes occur in the body overnight. The foundation of all this is laid on this night.
There is hardly any youth in the world who is normal and who does not have beautiful dreams about this night in his heart. But the meaning of honeymoon or Shabe Urusi is not limited to physical relations only. On this night the body also changes, the mind also changes and the brain also changes. Sexologists say that because sex is not just a test of thrust in a 4 inches long 2 inches wide crack between two legs. This is the hum between two ears, whose effect remains throughout our life. If this night is spent in rhythm, then life remains blissful.